Relational Psychology · 2 mins

Adult Attachment Style Test: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized

Framework: Experiences in Close Relationships-Revised (ECR-R) · 100% Private & Free

Discover your relational attachment style based on Bartholomew & Horowitz and ECR-R frameworks. Understand your intimacy triggers and relationship patterns.

Scientific Overview

Adult attachment theory explains how early relational bonding shapes our current expectations, fears, and behaviors in romantic and intimate relationships. This screener measures your position across two core psychological axes: Attachment Anxiety (fear of abandonment/rejection) and Attachment Avoidance (fear of intimacy/vulnerability).

What This Assessment Evaluates

  • Identifies Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant, or Fearful-Avoidant patterns
  • Explains deactivating strategies and protest behaviors triggered during relationship conflict
  • Actionable prompts to build 'earned secure attachment' through somatic self-soothing

How to Take This Test

  1. Answer honestly based on your experience over the past 7 days.
  2. There are no right or wrong answers; trust your initial emotional reaction.
  3. Receive your personalized score breakdown, mascot insight, and custom journaling prompts immediately.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can my attachment style change over time?

Yes. Attachment styles are adaptable relational adaptations, not fixed personality traits. Through consistent self-awareness, emotional validation, and secure relationships, individuals can develop 'earned security'.

Medical Disclaimer

Medical Disclaimer: This instrument is designed for personal self-awareness, emotional tracking, and educational purposes. It is not a clinical diagnosis, psychological treatment, or a substitute for licensed psychiatric care.

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