Relational Obsession · 90 secs

Limerence vs Love Test: Free 12-Item Romantic Obsession Screener

Framework: Dr. Dorothy Tennov Limerence Concept & Intermittent Reinforcement · 100% Private & Free

Are you in genuine love or trapped in a dopamine-fueled limerent obsession? Free 12-item screener based on Dr. Dorothy Tennov's psychological research.

Scientific Overview

Limerence is an involuntary state of intense romantic infatuation characterized by intrusive obsessive thinking about a 'Limerent Object' (LO), acute longing for reciprocation, and mood dependency on micro-cues of attention.

What This Assessment Evaluates

  • Distinguishes genuine secure attachment from dopamine-spiked limerent obsession
  • Identifies the role of intermittent reinforcement and emotional unavailability
  • Recovery steps: breaking the dopamine loop and reclaiming emotional sovereignty

How to Take This Test

  1. Answer honestly based on your experience over the past 7 days.
  2. There are no right or wrong answers; trust your initial emotional reaction.
  3. Receive your personalized score breakdown, mascot insight, and custom journaling prompts immediately.

Frequently Asked Questions

What causes limerence?

Limerence is typically sparked by intermittent reinforcement-uncertainty and mixed signals-combined with unmet childhood attachment needs and a craving for dopamine escape.

Medical Disclaimer

Medical Disclaimer: This instrument is designed for personal self-awareness, emotional tracking, and educational purposes. It is not a clinical diagnosis, psychological treatment, or a substitute for licensed psychiatric care.

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